Nowadays we spend a lot of time with friends rather than our family.
Obviously friends become really important to us in life.
We share everything with them,we depend on them, we help them.
This special bonding called friendship is a wonderful feeling and excellent experience.
Selecting our friends are really vital if we wish to make this bonding a memorable,good feeling.
Many say friendship must happen.True, it is a natural process, but still we must decide who must be close to us.
We cannot make friends with every one without giving thought to our preferences & their preferences - likes and dislikes.
I knew few, who made friends with any one who came across them.
It is not wrong being friendly with every one. But we cannot have a random best friend or a close friend.
Few so called friends tend to manipulate a person in the name of friendship. They take away your time,energy, money,fame,family,most important happiness and push you to a negative state of mind for their selfish motives, so how can we call them friends?
We all see this happening right around us.. don’t we?
Many strangers become friends without thinking and latter break up, this is almost like a marriage break up.

All thats missing in such friendship is ‘Understanding & Frankness’
So studying a person’s character, their lifestyle, their aptitude and knowing about your compatibility and comfort level is very important in a true friendship.